Comments on: Getting to a Club Early, When it’s Empty http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/2009/04/20/getting-there-early/ Thu, 29 Jul 2010 20:22:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Scott http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/2009/04/20/getting-there-early/#comment-37 Scott Thu, 14 May 2009 16:01:04 +0000 http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/2009/04/20/getting-there-early/#comment-37 Dancing aside for a moment, the early hours of the night are also your best chance to build social connections. If you're alone it helps to have a few groups in the bar you can bounce in and out of. Don't overstay your welcome but make an effort to at least say hi to a few groups that look like they're having a good time. Wish them well and walk away before it gets awkward. Remember that early part of the night is also when people are meeting up with their friends, they may not want to deal with a stranger trying to get to know them. But plant a few seeds and then go do your own thing for a while. Dance a while, and let yourself be seen having a good time. Those seeds you planted early in the night will pay off big time later in the night. Dancing aside for a moment, the early hours of the night are also your best chance to build social connections. If you’re alone it helps to have a few groups in the bar you can bounce in and out of. Don’t overstay your welcome but make an effort to at least say hi to a few groups that look like they’re having a good time. Wish them well and walk away before it gets awkward. Remember that early part of the night is also when people are meeting up with their friends, they may not want to deal with a stranger trying to get to know them.

But plant a few seeds and then go do your own thing for a while. Dance a while, and let yourself be seen having a good time. Those seeds you planted early in the night will pay off big time later in the night.

]]> By: Mark http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/2009/04/20/getting-there-early/#comment-5 Mark Fri, 24 Apr 2009 19:06:00 +0000 http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/2009/04/20/getting-there-early/#comment-5 Arriving early AND being the first up on the dance floor is a huge DHV. You don't have to dance like JT, just look like you are having fun. You'll be noticed. It sez you are a leader. Just sayin. Arriving early AND being the first up on the dance floor is a huge DHV. You don’t have to dance like JT, just look like you are having fun. You’ll be noticed.

It sez you are a leader. Just sayin.

]]> By: James http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/2009/04/20/getting-there-early/#comment-3 James Tue, 21 Apr 2009 04:53:22 +0000 http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/2009/04/20/getting-there-early/#comment-3 Cool post! I didn't ever think of doing those things. I like the phone tip and pretending to be on it! Can you talk more about dancing by yourself? Alot of my friends don't dance so sometimes I'll have to dance by myself. I feel like a chode sometimes when I don't have anyone to dance with. Thanks alot! I hope you keep adding more to your blog. Cool post! I didn’t ever think of doing those things. I like the phone tip and pretending to be on it! Can you talk more about dancing by yourself? Alot of my friends don’t dance so sometimes I’ll have to dance by myself. I feel like a chode sometimes when I don’t have anyone to dance with. Thanks alot! I hope you keep adding more to your blog.

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